Very often Christian ladies who are in a courtship find themselves asking this question because everything seems to be too good to be true.
As a Christian woman, you might have found a man that is really into you, a man that truly cares for you and genuinely loves you with all his heart. He is faithful to you, he encourages you, he stands by you, he is proud to be with you and everything seems okay but part of you still wonders whether you are everything this guy is looking for.
The guy could be calling you like every other minute during the day, he takes you out, spoils you, treats you the way you’ve always wanted to be treated, he respects you and there is nothing to indicate that he isn’t sincere in his actions, yet there is still that thing within you that causes you to question whether you are truly all he is looking for.
You think to yourself why did he choose me among all the other beautiful Christian sisters out there, what does he see in me, maybe a part of you even feels like you don’t deserve to be with someone that cherishes you so much or maybe you never thought you would ever meet someone that would value you so much because other guys that you have dated in the past mistreated you.
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This feeling of fear and insecurity can be very dangerous because it can potentially lead to suspicion. In the attempt to gain some security you might find yourself starting to check his phone to monitor who he has been speaking to, to see if he has been speaking to other ladies, or you might start keeping tabs on him and smothering him demanding to know where he is at all times.
A guy that truly loves you might initially put up with you checking his phone and constantly checking up on him because he knows that he has nothing to hide, but if you become obsessive about it to the point where he feels like you don’t trust him, then you stand a big chance of losing him because no matter how good a man is, no one wants to stay in a relationship where every move they make is scrutinized and monitored.
If you find yourself asking the question, I’m I really everything he is looking for, remember that of all the women out there he chose you, and he chose you because he see’ qualities in you that he likes.
You might not feel like the most beautiful woman or the most intelligent woman or the most accomplished woman, but there is still something about you that he wants, something about you that he knows he can never find with another woman, it’s your uniqueness, it’s what makes you you, and that’s probably why he came after you in the first place.
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